
Dottie
So just recently found out I was pregnant. I'm about 6 weeks, I quit using my face wash bc of what's in it. So basically tips for keeping a clean healthy face? My face as just seemed completely dried out this past week. Thanks!
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There are a lot of natural ways to take care of your skin if you are looking for ways to cleanse and hydrate without using chemicals. You said that your face has dried out this past week; I would try using some coconut oil. Coconut oil is amazing and does so much besides hydrating skin! Use it as lotion, chapstick, make-up remover, moisturizer, hair de-frizzer, etc. There are lots of benefits to consuming it and using it on your skin.
I found a website that lists over 100 uses. This is just one but there are tons of others out there with even more information: http://wellnessmama.com/5734/101-uses-for-coconut-oil/
Good luck and congrats on your pregnancy!! Wishing you the best. :)
There are a lot of natural ways to take care of your skin if you are looking for ways to cleanse and hydrate without using chemicals. You said that your face has dried out this past week; I would try using some coconut oil. Coconut oil is amazing and does so much besides hydrating skin! Use it as lotion, chapstick, make-up remover, moisturizer, hair de-frizzer, etc. There are lots of benefits to consuming it and using it on your skin.
I found a website that lists over 100 uses. This is just one but there are tons of others out there with even more information: http://wellnessmama.com/5734/101-uses-for-coconut-oil/
Good luck and congrats on your pregnancy!! Wishing you the best. :)
How painful is it to lose your virginity?

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I'm getting married in a couple of months. My fiancé is great! He says we'll take it slow. We plan on forplaying a lot obviously and using the appropriate lube etc but that's not my concern. I'm really worried about the pain. I've heard horror stories and I honestly dont want to spend my honeymoon sore for a week or continuously spotting if I end up bleeding.
I'm 20 now and I have never used a tampon. Every time I tried it just hurt really bad so I gave up in the end and started using pads. At first I thought I was inserting it wrong but that wasn't the case. So I took a mirror to have a better look down there and I literally could not even find my vaginal opening. I've seen diagrams. So I know where my anus is and I found my clitoris, but I think my hymen is completely shut! From what I read, they say that's impossible since anyone with a period will obviously have to have some sort of flow. So I'm guessing I just have a microperforate hymen and the opening might just be too small to see. I've tried stretching it with my fingers by just feeling around since I couldn't find it in the mirror but even that hurt.
My fiancé tells me not to worry about it. He says it'll naturally tear on our wedding night and he will find it for me. I wont even let him finger me because it hurts too much and I want to enjoy the rest of our honeymoon without being in pain. Should I go to the doctors and just have them tear it for me? Maybe it'll be less painful? Anyone else have this issue?
Please don't tell me I need more foreplay. He turns me on a lot and has been very patient with me for literally hours at a time. I can feel myself get wet and I'm madly in love. Just really annoyed :(
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You're guessing?
It is possible that you have a hymen that is covering your vaginal opening more than normal, you need to explore your genitals more so that you KNOW - this is your body, the idea that you don't know it well enough to identify basic parts of your anatomy by your age is very concerning, even if your hymen is in tact you'd still be able to identify your vaginal opening and the hymen itself. Spend more time exploring your body, and with your partners help too.
Go to your doctors to confirm if this is the case, hymens can normally be stretched slowly over time using lubrication like coconut oil or olive oil and gradually inserting larger items, but if yours is particularly tough it is best to have it surgically cut. There's no reason to keep your hymen in tact and have your partner HURT YOU during the first time you have sex - sex is supposed to be pain-free and pleasurable every single time, and your partner is being a bit of a jerk suggesting that you shouldn't worry about it and risk being in pain for his benefit!
Bare in mind that pain during sex the first time is rarely anything to do with the hymen - most women's hymens are worn away, stretched, or torn by the time they have sex, or simply aren't an issue because they don't cover much of the vaginal opening. Pain during first intercourse, as with any time you have intercourse, is most commonly down to lack of arousal (when aroused the vagina lubricates, relaxes, opens, and increases in size) or a woman tensing-up.
More information:
My Corona: The Anatomy Formerly Known as the Hymen & the Myths That Surround It - http://www.scarleteen.com/article/body/my_corona_the_anatomy_formerly_known_as_the_hymen_the_myths_that_surround_it
One Bloody Mess: Myths & Realities of Bleeding with First Intercourse - http://www.scarleteen.com/article/body/one_bloody_mess_myths_realities_of_bleeding_with_first_intercourse
From OW! to WOW! Demystifying Painful Intercourse - http://www.scarleteen.com/article/pink/from_ow_to_wow_demystifying_painful_intercourse
Innies & Outies: The Vagina, Clitoris, Uterus and More - http://www.scarleteen.com/article/body/anatomy_pink_parts_female_sexual_anatomy
First Intercourse 101 - http://www.scarleteen.com/article/sexuality/first_intercourse_101
You're guessing?
It is possible that you have a hymen that is covering your vaginal opening more than normal, you need to explore your genitals more so that you KNOW - this is your body, the idea that you don't know it well enough to identify basic parts of your anatomy by your age is very concerning, even if your hymen is in tact you'd still be able to identify your vaginal opening and the hymen itself. Spend more time exploring your body, and with your partners help too.
Go to your doctors to confirm if this is the case, hymens can normally be stretched slowly over time using lubrication like coconut oil or olive oil and gradually inserting larger items, but if yours is particularly tough it is best to have it surgically cut. There's no reason to keep your hymen in tact and have your partner HURT YOU during the first time you have sex - sex is supposed to be pain-free and pleasurable every single time, and your partner is being a bit of a jerk suggesting that you shouldn't worry about it and risk being in pain for his benefit!
Bare in mind that pain during sex the first time is rarely anything to do with the hymen - most women's hymens are worn away, stretched, or torn by the time they have sex, or simply aren't an issue because they don't cover much of the vaginal opening. Pain during first intercourse, as with any time you have intercourse, is most commonly down to lack of arousal (when aroused the vagina lubricates, relaxes, opens, and increases in size) or a woman tensing-up.
More information:
My Corona: The Anatomy Formerly Known as the Hymen & the Myths That Surround It - http://www.scarleteen.com/article/body/my_corona_the_anatomy_formerly_known_as_the_hymen_the_myths_that_surround_it
One Bloody Mess: Myths & Realities of Bleeding with First Intercourse - http://www.scarleteen.com/article/body/one_bloody_mess_myths_realities_of_bleeding_with_first_intercourse
From OW! to WOW! Demystifying Painful Intercourse - http://www.scarleteen.com/article/pink/from_ow_to_wow_demystifying_painful_intercourse
Innies & Outies: The Vagina, Clitoris, Uterus and More - http://www.scarleteen.com/article/body/anatomy_pink_parts_female_sexual_anatomy
First Intercourse 101 - http://www.scarleteen.com/article/sexuality/first_intercourse_101
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